5 Common Lies That Married Men Use To Lure Single Ladies

5 Common Lies That Married Men Use To Lure Single Ladies

In contemporary society, hardly anything that happens around us is surprising. So, it is interesting to see the way some women fall for the same old lies coming from our men. Or maybe, the women are aware of the trickeries and just want to feel “mollycoddled” even if just for a moment. For many other women, the allure of the “easy coin” blinds them from reality.

Some men say anything to get the attention of a lady. Interestingly, many married men are now to be revered with their cunning charm and seemingly unfazed thirst. I have lost count of the times I have spotted a married man (visible wedding band) ogle at a woman with tremendous THIRST, literally disrobing her as she walks.

Some of the men even go ahead to give the excuse that having a side-dish will make you a better husband. The nerve! The men lure their victims with sweet nothings, most of the time without thinking of the consequences. Most of the time, they want to experience some “fun” with a woman and then dissipate into thin air to the next gullible victim.

Dear women, I would like to go out on a limb here and say that I do not support you being a cougar either.  This is my objective view. I have seen a married woman (with wedding ring) waiting for what looked like shamba boy (no wedding ring, rugged hands, somewhat unkempt, and visibly scared/intimidated) to pay for accommodation at a restaurant/hotel only for her to emerge later from her car and strut into the fine accommodations with the shamba boy. What gave them away was the attendant who was obliviously asking them, “Breakfast yenu mtakulia hapa.” The embarrassment on her face said it all. I cringed.

Here are 5 common lies that married men use to lure single ladies

 

1. I swear I am about to divorce my wife!

This one never gets old. The married man often hints that the divorce proceedings have even began. The lady is quite pleased with this and begins to think maybe…just maybe…it could work! If a married man tells you that he wants to leave his wife soon, then ask for the divorce papers; duly signed and waiting for a court date. Then, you can begin to have a conversation; key word: BEGIN

5 Common Lies That Married Men Use To Lure Single Ladies

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2. I was forced to marry that woman

This is yet another common lie that married men tell single women. They often say this to show that they are madly in love the “new prospect” over and above the love they have for their wives and yet in real sense, the man could never give up his wife for anything. The common lie is that there were unavoidable circumstances that led to the “unfortunate” marriage.

5 Common Lies That Married Men Use To Lure Single Ladies

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3. I find you so much more attractive than my wife!

Some married men lie to mistresses that their wives have become less attractive over the years so that it seems like they are seeking to fill a huge void in their lives. If a woman feels beautiful because of a few UNSUBSTANTIATED words, then she is welcoming to the idea of a painful break up.

5 Common Lies That Married Men Use To Lure Single Ladies

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4. We no longer have a physical connection with her

By the time a man gets to telling you that bedroom matters are on the rocks, he has marked you, and is preparing to make you his next conquest. A married man will lie to a lady that they don’t sleep with their wives so that the lady believes that he has moved on from his wife and also, to show that it’s only a matter of time before the new prospect takes the wife’s place. Demonizing the wife is a calculated strategy. Furthermore, who says that in case (in one in a million chances) you become his new wife that he won’t demonize you the same way he demonizes his wife.

5 Common Lies That Married Men Use To Lure Single Ladies

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5. I am with her because of the kids

Oh Lord! I cringe every time I hear a woman fall for this. How is that supposed to justify seeking a side-dish and subsequently, trample over one’s marriage? A married man will lie to his side-dish that he is with his wife to get into her pants and make her believe that he has found love. In case love has been found, it is highly likely that the new woman will be in one mixed up situation because they are all enjoined in one “happy family.” Being a third wheel can be draining. Or so I think.

5 Common Lies That Married Men Use To Lure Single Ladies

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