How to Approach a Girl in Kenya – 4 Tips That Actually Work
How to Approach a Girl in Kenya
It has happened to almost anyone at one point of their lives; some more than others. You see a beautiful woman and you want to approach her, but you have no clue where to start. “Should I ask her for her number?” “Should I ask her out on a date first?” “Should I show her my car keys; then ask her for her number?” The thought of approaching that beautiful woman gives anyone chills and gets your heart racing like those Subaru cars on Kiambu road. I will tell you what not to do and what to do.
Firstly, don’t ever show your car keys thinking you will get any woman worth her salt
Most men freeze when it comes to approaching a woman. Pay attention to the girl’s body language so that you don’t speak out of turn or misread the signs. Always be respectful of her boundaries.
Now let’s get to it.
How to approach a girl in Kenya : Quick tips
1. Don’t fear rejection
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Fear of rejection is always one’s biggest enemy. Women respond either by being neutral or positive. It’s an ego thing. It makes her feel good, excited and flattered when a man approaches her. With that in mind, it’s hard to see a woman respond by being upset or offended. Don’t let fear ruin your opportunity to approach a woman.
2. Try to make eye contact
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If you like a girl, first make eye contact before approaching her. If she maintains eye contact with you for a short while, what you would call lingering, it means she also wants you to approach her. If a girl gives you at least three glances, it means she’s also interested in you. Once she smiles, that’s your cue to make a move.
3. Start a conversation – key word – conversation – not that weather talk
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Be the first to break the ice, you could tell her that she has a lovely smile. Try to compliment her because girls love appreciation but don’t overdo it.
4. Don’t ask for her number in an obvious way
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If you want to become a Zen master with women, always wait a while after you start talking before asking for her number. Then, you can slide in the question, like team mafisi do when they slide in the DM.
You could ask her, “I would like to take you out for dinner/lunch/drinks sometime, mind giving me your number so that I can reach you?”
“Can we keep in touch?” then ask for her number. Make it playful…