7 Habits That Show You Are a Likable Person | For Both Men and Women
7 Habits That Show You Are a Likable Person
If you work in the office and you find that all your workmates go for lunch together but don’t bother to invite you, maybe it’s time to try and find out why you are always left out.
Almost every day, we meet the different people. Some we like; some we don’t. There are people we can’t wait to meet and catch up. That’s just part of life. However, is important to try and achieve a balance. When everyone doesn’t like you, or you don’t like everyone, something might be wrong. It’s normal not to agree with everyone in life but when everyone doesn’t like you, check yourself.
Here are habits that show you are a likable person:
1. You mind your own business
You don’t have to be a snob, but you can give your opinion where it’s needed and asked for. You might have noticed how annoying it is when someone eavesdrops on your conversation and gives an opinion without necessarily being invited into the conversation. Keep your thoughts to yourself if you are not invited to join a conversation.
2. You are a patient person
You allow people to make mistakes and give them room for growth. Guys like you because they trust you and this is why they will ask for assistance from you at the office.
3. You see the good in people
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You see the good in people even when you don’t agree with their values. You take people as they are with no judgments.
4. You are a genuine person
These days, finding genuine friends is as confusing as trying to get to the bottom of how Josephine Kabura managed to loan sh. 60 million as a soft loan to her friends.
If you are the kind that does not stand anything that smells fake, you are probably a likable person. Likable people give positive criticism where it is needed, and this is why people go to them when they have a situation because they know such people care.
5. You give genuine compliments
You tend to see the good in people. People will smile with you genuinely because they are happy to be around you. People subconsciously remember nice compliments and will always relate to them.
6. You forgive fast
You let go of things that hurt you – and fast. You tend to be the bigger person and this makes people like you. You like to keep a clean slate with your friends, and that’s why they find you admirable.
7. You are not the know it all type
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You are not the kind of person who pretends to know everything. You listen and answer when it’s time to answer without cutting off whoever is talking. You make people feel comfortable around you, and that’s why people confide in you. If you want to know whether you are toxic, check this out.